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What Does the BIG d Stand For?

When we started out the “d” stood for divorce. The irony wasn’t lost on us that the BIG d also stood for many other things to different people. Dick (our favorite). Dallas, Texas. Detroit. Denver. Boobs (as in DD). Diarrhea. If you haven’t realized it yet, we aren’t scared to talk about anything. We love discomfort both for us and others. As our business took shape however the d came to stand for so many things to us:

  • Deciding. The ultimate decision of whether to GET IN your relationship or GET OUT.

  • Direction. Your life is too important to spend one more day in this stuck place. It’s time to get moving, but what direction do you want to go?

  • Discovering. What’s possible. What’s possible in my relationship? Discovering who you really are. Discovering who your partner really is. Discovering a better way to divorce. Discovering what life looks like after divorce.

  • Design. Design your divorce. Don’t settle with, “Well, that’s how it’s always been done”. Choose a better way. Design what’s right for you. Design your life. Don’t be a bystander, don’t be a passenger on your own journey - design the life you want and lead your way there.

  • Different. Do it differently. Your relationship, your divorce, your life.

  • Daring. Daring to be brave. Daring to have courage. Daring to be vulnerable. Daring to take that proverbial path less taken…

  • Deserve. You deserve to be happy. 

  • Debate. A healthy debate creates conversation. And our goal is to get people talking about the subjects that are usually so taboo. The ones we turn a blind eye to. The ones we sweep under the rug. Let’s talk about them. Let’s create change. 

While we strive to make the BIG d of divorce a little d we also plan to focus our energy on the other d’s and help individuals and couples create meaningful, thriving relationships through discovery, intentional design, the courage to dare and the courage to own the happiness they deserve.

Ready to start doing it differently? Let’s Talk!